If you want it in your life, reach out and grab it. Pull it in.
Do shit that forces it to occupy space in your mind. Commit to it in ways that even when you’re not feeling it, it’s all up in your face anyway. Allocate time for it. Hang around people who have it. Take time to imagine life with it.
Become the source of information about it. When people stumble upon it, be the person they think about. If you want it to be part of you, be it. Anything else is just you blowing smoke. Ain’t nobody got time for that…